Between Successfulness and Bliss

Between Successfulness and Bliss Barnawi Linear successfulness ideally with bliss. Progressively success must it happy progressively. But at fact do not all successfulness bring part. Many successfulness which is indisposed berekses, for example success making stress, inharmonious in household, terisolir, and make life as in awang-awang. such Successful is poisonous success. Successful Meaning Success come from Latin Ianguage of successus, from succedere past participle form, following to near from or catch up, or come after. Success is something that come after us conduct action certainly ( Jalaluddin Blessing, 2004). Referring at terminiologi above taken by conclusion that success represent the effect of effort, struggle, and prayer. Thereby there no incoming successfulness sudden without passing struggle, in this context amen pain without gain no Toxic Successful Syndrome Each and everyone wish success, do not aside from. Success of course have a meaning of relative for every people. There is assuming success after becoming PNS(pegawai negri sipil), there is assuming success after well established job, owning properti, beautiful wife, and newest output hybrid car, but there is also assuming success if having come to one who have an effect on and in command in local level and also national.Every successful meaningful or definition from each and everyone very influenced by many matter, social status of economics, education background, environmental, even genetik Feel to wish success is basically pushed by good motivation of intern motivation and also ekstern. To most successfulness generate fasting. Disorientasi of target of attainment of fasting oftentimes bring someone at ambition. excessive ambition and do not be controlled by rentan create toxic successful syndrome. toxic Successful syndrome which is often shortened by TSS represent remarkable successful ambition but do not bring bliss to its perpetrator. According to Pearsall ( in Jalaluddin, 2004) there is 14 TSS symptom: 1. Self-Sightedness namely centrally at x'self so that do not see and feel requirement of others 2. Surrender Stress, surendering at stress. Fall at system maelstrom though existing system far from etik. We often justificate with term: jamanne jaman edan nek ora edan ora komanan. 3. And down Up, fluctuate feeling him alias change idea easily, sometime very spirit another time so weak 4. Cynicism Chronic, chronic sinisme namely often blame and criticize most of all people 5. Grouchiness, its job grumble exclusively 6. Pestered Feeling, feel annoyed, thin-skinned if there is people around calling attention 7. Multitasking, namely do many matter during at the same time 8. Absenteeism Psycological, namely think rearward what not yet been done by causing depresi and think forwards what will be done so that worry 9. Weariness, tired without desisting, pattern sleep annoyed. 10. Chono-Currency, looking into time as ansich money. 11. Relation-Exploitation, using most intimate relation just for eliminating stress 12. Spiritual Deficit Disorder, namely blankness of meaning loss and rohaniah, life become insipidly. 13. Power motive Inhibited, namely Iust in command very high. 14. Health help and Self, namely manage x'self stress variously, non overcoming stress. If us pay attention from symptom - TSS symptom above, earning generalizing us that many among us which is rentan to TSS. Ideally TSS is not us manage but we have to overcome. To overcome TSS, Pearsall express there is three recipe namely 3c: contentment, calm, connection. By Jallaluddin 3C turned into 3K namely fasting to which we reach for, calmness in experiencing life, and linked with humanity, environmental, and The Khaliq. Come on successfulness which we reach to give bliss, giving to lick lips, giving calmness, and ketersambungan. Third Sinthesa make successfulness bring bliss, happy cause is the target of each human being, without exception. Barnawi, MA Alhikmah 2